Rev. Deji Olabode has advised people considering marriage to prioritize friendship and genuine understanding when choosing a life partner.
Speaking during a recent teaching, Rev. Olabode stated, “Marry your friend and 80% to 90% of your problems may already be solved.”
He emphasized that friendship provides an important foundation for marriage because it allows couples to understand each other’s character, communicate openly, enjoy each other’s company, and develop trust before entering into a lifelong commitment.
His remarks have sparked conversations among Christians and young adults about the importance of friendship in romantic relationships. Many agreed that marrying someone who is also a genuine friend can strengthen communication, companionship, and emotional connection within a marriage.
Others noted that friendship alone does not guarantee a successful marriage, emphasizing the importance of shared values, emotional maturity, compatibility, commitment, financial responsibility, and mutual respect.
The statement has therefore encouraged many people to look beyond physical attraction or romantic feelings when considering marriage and to pay closer attention to character, friendship, compatibility, and the ability to build a healthy partnership.
Rev. Olabode’s message ultimately highlights the importance of choosing a spouse with whom one can not only fall in love but also build a lasting friendship and life together.