Pastor Emmanuel Iren has encouraged married couples to seek wisdom from older and more experienced couples, regardless of whether their marriages are currently peaceful or facing difficulties.
Speaking during a recent teaching, Pastor Iren advised couples to intentionally spend time with older, wiser couples who can offer guidance, perspective, and practical counsel based on their experiences.
He emphasized that couples should not wait until their marriage is experiencing serious problems before seeking godly counsel. According to him, learning from couples who have successfully navigated different seasons of marriage can help younger couples gain wisdom and avoid preventable mistakes.
His remarks have sparked conversations about mentorship and accountability in marriage. Many agreed that having mature couples who can provide honest and balanced guidance can strengthen relationships, particularly when couples are willing to receive correction and apply what they learn.
The statement also highlights the importance of choosing mentors carefully. Not every older couple necessarily has a healthy marriage, making wisdom, character, and the quality of their relationship important considerations when seeking counsel.
Pastor Iren’s message ultimately encourages couples to pursue wisdom proactively and build relationships with mature couples who can provide godly guidance through both peaceful and challenging seasons of marriage.