Nigerian pastor and relationship coach Kingsley Okonkwo has advised single mothers who are considering marriage to prioritise finding a partner who can also play a positive fatherly role in their children’s lives.
In a statement shared on his X account, the pastor emphasised that choosing a life partner as a single mother involves considering not only personal compatibility but also the well-being of one’s child.
“If a single mom is considering marriage, one of the most significant choices she will make is choosing a man who can father her child,” he wrote.
His message highlights the importance of considering a prospective partner’s character, emotional maturity and willingness to accept parental responsibilities.
According to the perspective expressed in his statement, marriage decisions involving children should take into account the kind of family environment a new partner would help create.
The advice encourages single mothers to look beyond romantic attraction and consider how a prospective husband would treat, support and care for their children.