Here are some errors often committed by
married folks. If you want a happy marriage,
you must avoid every single one.
If you want to enjoy prolonged marital happiness
and peace, you must do all in your power to ensure
you do fall into the following marriage traps.
Being too serious
I think more men are guilty of this. Yeah, we get it-
you have to pay bills and house rent and all others,
but that does not mean you should look so serious
and stuck up all the time. Please loosen up a bit. No,
loosen up a lot.
Refusing to argue
A married life without arguments might seem
perfect, but when you reconsider it, it’s actually
kind of creepy as it suggests that a certain lack of
deeper communication, or pretence.
Yes, your spiritual head warned on your wedding
day that a man is the head of the family and that a
good woman is not meant to give her husband
trouble in any way. This, though, is not what they
meant.
Most likely, you will not like some things your
spouse does, or some views they hold, which will
lead to arguments, no matter how little once in a
while.
Refusing to argue is most times equal to refusing to
iron out some issues in your marriage. This is not
good enough.
Public fights
Little quarrels and squabbles are quite normal, even
expected to happen once in a while in every
marriage; but for everyone’s sake, please keep
your disagreements behind closed doors.
Never eating together
If you have never eaten a meal with your spouse;
or if you used to but not anymore, you should start
it again. Couples should frequently find time to
enjoy a meal together. It has the advantage of
helping you develop communication and
togetherness.
Technology ‘overuse’
When most of your concentration shifts from your
lover to your phone, the results can only be
negative. Communication can fall by the wayside,
your partner may feel neglected and neither of
these things is good for your marriage.
Sleeping in different beds
This is a total no. Whether or not your spouse snores like a banshee, do not make the mistake of considering the option of sleeping in different beds.
It will cause to lose intimacy with your partner. No
matter of how tough the fight is, do not give in to
the temptation of staying off the bed.
Matter of fact, sleeping on the bed gives you a very
good avenue to make up quickly, if you get what I
mean. *wink
Never making the first move
This mostly concerns women. Even if your partner
is usually the one who makes the move for sex in
your marriage, don’t ever be afraid to switch things
up.
This is one change that will add a lot of spice to
your bedroom life [or wherever you prefer to often
have sex.]
Same rule goes for other acts of displaying
affection.
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