One of the reasons people fall flat into illicit sex is over confidence! The stupid belief that you can be free around the opposite sex and nothing would happen. If you’re too careless around the opposite sex, you can fall flat! The earlier you believe this the better for you. You can’t be careless around the opposite sex and hope to stay sexually pure, set boundaries!
1. Monitor your chats. Don’t allow anybody send you flirty messages, no matter how ‘innocent’, warn them and if they refuse, block them!
2. Limit hugs and touches. If your hugging anointing is only for the opposite sex, I want none of it!
3. Don’t allow anybody call you pet names (except your close family members), doesn’t make any sense. Pet names can turn people on, if you don’t know that, know it right now.
4. Be sensitive to attractions, know when a man/woman is sexually attracted to you and move back. If they focus too much on your physique, they are sexually attracted to you, move back.
5. Know when you are sexually attracted to someone and move back. Marrying the greatest man on earth or the most beautiful woman in the universe will not automatically stop you from being attracted to someone else. Know when the thought of another man/woman gets you excited and move back!
6. Don’t jump at new relationships, give it time. If your core values are not compatible, move back!
7. Leadership attracts all sorts. If you are a leader, gifted or intelligent, the opposite sex will show interest in you. Be careful who gets close to you!
8. Accepts gifts with care.
9. Work on your marriage. Fix problems fast. Any of you can get attracted elsewhere.
10. “Watch and Pray that ye may not fall…” 11. Don’t stay with the opposite sex in a lonely room
12. Avoid provocative dresses and pictures, also on Social Media. If it’s getting unnecessary sexual attention, delete it!
People may laugh at you, it doesn’t matter. They may call you a neurotic, psychotic, fanatic, over sensitive or paranoid, please don’t care! Your destiny is too precious to waste on the altar of sin!
Avoid friends who make fun of holiness, make friends with those who love purity! You will not fall in Jesus’ name!
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