The plan of the devil is to plant enmity
between you and your spouse so, you will not
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 :9-Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.
10- For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.
11- Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?
12-And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
The plan of the devil is to plant enmity between you and your spouse so, you will not be united.
The enemy understands the power you can wield if you are united. Couples who are united serve as a pillar for each other in the time of trouble.
Criticism and anger tears marriages apart and gives room for the devil to plant negative thoughts and ideas.
Better still, is the threefold unity. The threefold cord in the above scripture simply means that the couple have God as a partner in their marriage.
In all you do, make sure you acknowledge God and the Lordship of Jesus in your marriage.
Unity is power. Decide today, not to let offence cloud your love for your spouse.
Father, please teach me how to love and stand in unity with my spouse. Help us build a united home. Teach me to forgive easily and resolve issues lovingly, also help us keep the enemy away from our marriage in Jesus name.
1.Never put down or criticise your spouse, especially in public.
2.Always find out your spouse’s side of the story if you have an assumption or hear a report.
3. Speak well of each other always.
4. Finally, make a list of things you will say thank you to your spouse for, every day.