This is what Rev. Mrs Funke Felix Adejumo has to
say to couples.
Somebody might read this and have a break
through in a troubled situation.
As a woman, you are many things to your
husband and as a man, there are 8 things you
should be to your wife.
Don’t marry a man because of what he drives but
what drives him.
Seduce your husband. Don’t always allow your
husband to ask for sex.
As a woman your under wear should match
You must be a different woman to your husband
every time. Be creative. Don’t be predictable. Give
him what he wants.
Everyone woman has an influence. If you lose
influence over your husband you have lost
You must learn to synchronize with your husband.
Be part of his plans..
Don’t have too many children. Sex is not all about
Dress to please your husband..
Don’t fix time to have sex with your
husband.When a man is sexually satisfied he is
As a woman you should invest in yourself
spiritually so you can adequately support him.
Build yourself as a prayer warrior so that you will
not be forced to pray at the end of your life.
I agree with almost all but why must my husband
provide for all my needs? Is he a money making
Secondly, why cant I provide for my husband, after
all, iron sharpens iron, they say, if he can buy me
something, I should be able to reciprocate, isn’t that romantic?
As a woman you are a helper!
The one who you are helping must be stronger
than you! Once you are married, you are
somebody’s helper and the helper is meant to
have what the person’s need!
As a wife, you are meant to surround your
Women are natural keepers; men take care of your
wives so your life can be long! The woman is your
helper. Treasure your wife, let her feel important!!
Let your wife know that she is important. Women,
you are your husband’s helper, stop looking helter
You are there to help him and God will reward you.
As a woman, you are a builder!!
Proverbs 14:1– A wise woman buildeth her home!
We need wisdom to build. You must know when to
speak, when to keep quiet, when to comfort,
when to build!
As a woman you are a servant!
Titus 2:4-5– These older women must train the
younger women to love their husbands and their
children, 5 to live wisely and be pure, to work in
their homes, to do good, and to be submissive to
their husbands. Then they will not bring shame on
the word of God.
You are a cook, cleaner, laundry woman and
When last did you love him and lay his head on
your chest? When last did you run up behind him
and kiss him?
Once a bride, always a bride!! Stop calling him
daddy or papa Joseph!! He is your husband! You
are a servant, not a slave
You are an intercessor!
Prayer cover him, satan proof him, Delilah proof
your husband! If God has blessed you with a
husband, pray for him. The praying woman is a
winning woman; at certain times, just pray for your
husband!! No matter how happy you are in your
marriage, never stop praying for your husband! In case you don’t know, some people are not happy
that you are happy? That husband you think is
useless, some people are queuing to marry him.
Take care of your home; no matter where you go,
come back to your home!
As a woman, you are a lover!
Some women forget that you are a lover! Every
man is attracted by what he sees, while a woman is
attracted by what she hears. That is how we are
wired! If you are an old bride beside your
husband, you will push him to a Delilah! The male
species like variety, even Christian men can be tempted! Therefore, you must be many things to
Become unpredictable in marriage! Wear your hair
differently, dress differently!
You should have two types of nightwear, the
general ones and the ones only your husband can
see you in; you know what I mean. Look lovely for
your husband; remind him of what he has. Make
the room you share have a wonderful ambience!
Touch your husband!
A woman needs 13 meaningful touches a day!
Don’t be an old ugly bride around your husband;
walk hard to retain your shape!
You must be romantic and spontaneous!
Befriend your husband, if you don’t befriend him,
you will wake up one day and find a huge
Don’t let your ministry or career cause a rift
As a woman you are a covering!
Look at Genesis 21:9-10
What a man can’t see, a woman can see! So, as a
man learn to listen to your woman! Be careful
when your wife warns you about a particular
business or a friendship or woman, listen to her
and try to understand her! Don’t tell your wife to shut up. As a woman, protect your husband,
You are a keeper, an assignment!
For example, he gives you sperm; you keep it,
deliver a child and nurture that child! He tells you
his vision, you keep it in mind and help nurture
and bring it to pass.
May the lord give us Good understanding amen Share