General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor E.A. Adeboye, has sparked discussion after advising men, “Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook and is not hospitable.”
Speaking during a recent message on marriage and family life, Pastor Adeboye emphasized the importance of practical life skills and hospitality in building a healthy home. He encouraged couples to prepare for marriage by developing qualities that promote love, service, and mutual care within the family.
His remarks have generated mixed reactions among Christians and the wider public. Some agreed with his emphasis on hospitality and the value of cooking as an important life skill, while others argued that domestic responsibilities should be shared and that both husbands and wives can learn and grow together in marriage.
The comments have also reignited broader conversations about biblical roles in marriage, cultural expectations, and the qualities that contribute to strong and lasting relationships. Many have highlighted that successful marriages are built on love, mutual respect, effective communication, shared responsibility, and a willingness to serve one another.
As the discussion continues, Pastor Adeboye’s statement has encouraged many to reflect on the importance of character, maturity, and practical preparation for marriage, while recognising that Christian couples may hold differing views on the division of household responsibilities.